Edit re happiness
As promised earlier my views were bound to bend if not completely change I therefore very humbly make some amendments to my earlier declared state to happiness and how to achieve it.
I notice that one’s happiness only depends on a very limited and closed set of individuals. Not everybody matters, not everybody cares.
Our happiness is defined by the perception of us in a very limited and closed circle and not everybody. Our job is just to identify that circle - the people that matter!