reverting to mean

its was literally a rebirth of sort, so they can adapt but never forget it - its kind of coded in the body. My take is that they should not forget it/ try to ‘heal’ it.

All models are in hindsight - something happened- people observed and created models of it. But there are unknown unknowns - since i am not well read - i cannot bring the appropriate lingo. But as you said its a price to pay - shallow relationships / low depth - may be that price is life itself - or the only life you can have is a shallow life - you survived one heart attack in childhood and its not a thing to keep experimenting with again and again - there is no gym that trains you for heart attacks- you just pray you never get one - eat healthy exercise etc.

While some people live a normal life - eat what they want life in a unhealthy manner and still never get heart attacks- thats the randomness in the universe - some other do the best they can - live an ultimate healthy life and still get heart attacks - we can keep developing theories and explaining that - but then again something unexplainable pops up now and then and previous theories are invalidated. I guess it’s something like that … No ?